All career counselors give you a single advice – “Do what you like doing.” Out of my own experience I think it’s a little more complicated than that. What you like doing is just one part of it; a very important one for sure. These are the reasons they give? Well, if you don’t like what you do there is a very good chance that you would not excel. Two, even if you force yourself hard, irrespective of all the glory you won’t be happy. I find both these reasons skewed away from reality. I believe that the choice of your career path depends primarily on the right mix of two things –
· Derivatives that give you the kick
· Your constraints
Things that give you kick are often confused with things that you like doing. In most cases however what gives you the kick is the derivative of what you did and not essentially the actions you performed while you were performing a particular task. For example, you may hate filling excel sheets at two in the morning and binding folders at a photocopier for the next day presentation but the excess money in your bank at the end of the month gives you the kick to pursue a particular career. This is so true at least for one's preliminary years in the banking industry. Who ever I have spoken to so far is excited about the money part of banking which is a derivative rather than the actual work. Is it true only for banking? Not really. People who decide pursuing general management have their own kicks. Here it’s the essence of operational execution and proclivity for power. Again, it’s not about right and wrong, the point I am trying to make is that it’s the result that drive people more than their mere likings.
Constraints on the other hand play a much bigger role. You may want to use constraints and priorities interchangeably here, but the zest is the same. You may call time for family life a constraint or a priority. If you are unmarried you view it as a constraint that you don’t’ want while taking your career decisions. If you are married you want to rename it to ‘priority’ to justify your decisions to yourself.
